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Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Relaxing at home

Eid al Fitr is here. We're home today relaxing. Munchkins are vegging out on TV; we let them have the cartoon channels back for a few days then the cartoons will disappear again once school's back in. The husband, poor guy, is back at the office. Hopefully, he can finish what needs to be done.

Like many others in the world, we've been watching the markets - especially Wall Street. Folks, we all need to breathe. I was up until well into the night watching the news unfold live. The American media (ABC, NBC) seemed to be 'hyping' it up much more - creating panic? NBC seemed to be the worst. I'm just not seeing that with the BBC or the middle eastern press. And, the middle eastern press always seems to harp a bit on the Americans. The middle east news outlets are blaming President Bush, however. Interesting.

Yesterday was a full day to say the least. I'm very excited about volunteering my time, and no, my volunteering has nothing to do with the story I've posted about the Buddhist coffin ceremony. Sorry if my writing was a bit vague.

I'm meeting some women from the home country for a coca cola/coffee tonight close by (no alcohol for me). It's a piece of a large local organization of women sorta all from the home country. Hopefully, I get to know some of these ladies better.

Oh, and the snap posted above is Munchkin #2 with a picture she made from the craft/drawing book Grandma gave her. Thanks Grandma! Also, she's wearing a new Hamtaro hamster shirt. She loves Hamtaro!

Peace.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Visit Visas

Things change all the time. I'm looking into this because there are different rules for different passports. But, this could affect any of you who come to visit this region of the world and want to see more than one country.

http://www.gulfnews.com/nation/Immigration_and_Visas/10248402.html

Information is power.

Peace.

Wow, so much to say

I don't even know where to begin. I'm actually at a loss for words.

I am now going to be seriously involved volunteering my time and talents doing what I love to do more than anything else! (If you don't know what that is, then feel free to send me an email.) Is this why I landed in the Middle East? Maybe....

http://video.on.nytimes.com/?fr_story=fa15fee38d23834de6117fcb920ecb3d4e81b693
Found the video posted above in the New York Times. So many in need; so many searching....

Peace.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Jeep update

We're waiting to hear from insurance on what they can do for the poor old jeep. At this point, we're considering a 2007 used Wrangler. Add a bit of lift and bigger tires. The Wrangler Unlimiteds (4 doors) are just way too much money. In this region, they are going for over $30K U.S. Ouch. Frankly, the old jeep just needs to be used for parts. But, we'll see what the insurance company comes back with.

If we do another straight Wrangler, I'm hoping to add a welded on 'push bar' to the front, and we're working on what big bits we could weld/add on to the rear. The 2007's come equipped with good headrests and airbags. They are also within our price range, we think. We need something with offroad capability (really, I use it just to get the munchkins to school!) but that also keeps the munchkins safe. The husband is beyond thrilled to say the least to hear his wife say, "Gee honey. Lets just fork out for a lift kit and maybe some Mickey Thompsons? Well, I actually like GoodYear." Ha, ha. Guess I'm just different.

Middle East Fashion Tidbits

Yeah, I know. Fashion. Sigh....but this is interesting stuff....

During Ramadan, it is much more respectful of the local people and culture to dress very modestly. Except for the head coverings, I've known more than a few conservative Christian ladies who would love some stylish ways to dress that doesn't expose them too much.

Check out this article in Gulf News:
http://archive.gulfnews.com/indepth/ramadan/more_stories/10157597.html

Living in the Middle East, women wear bits from all over the region. I have shirts that are modest but still pretty that come from Pakistan, India, and Oman/UAE. The ebroidery work I've seen out of Afghanistan is exceptional. Silver jewelry from Oman and Afghanistan is also fabulous - and cheap if you know where to look. Read on.....
http://archive.gulfnews.com/articles/08/09/24/10247596.html
I have a beautiful sterling silver ring that is a jointed fish (it's quite large and heavy). It's different from some of the styles that used to come out of far East Asia. My mum got it for me here....for about 90AED/$20 U.S.

We may come from different countries, we may be of different religions, but we are all 'sisters.'

Peace.

Postscript: Outstanding story on marriage age in Yemen. Just another reason the education of women is so very important.
http://edition.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/09/26/heroes.shada.nasser/index.html

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Eid al-Fitr is almost here

Well, school's been 'canceled' for this whole coming week (in our area as well as others)! Whoop! Here's a news article on some of the closings/holidays:
http://www.gulfnews.com/nation/Government/10247395.html
I just wish we had known this a month ago! No time to buy plane tickets or get hotel reservations. So, we're going to hang out at home, eat out, swim and roam around.

And....now for something completely different:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=95016730&ft=1&f=1001&sc=YahooNews
If you know about what my family uses on our farm, you'll find this story interesting.

To switch gears yet again:

For those of you unfamiliar with Ramadan, here's something you might find interesting:
http://www.gulfnews.com/nation/Heritage_and_Culture/10153386.html

http://www.gulfnews.com/nation/Heritage_and_Culture/10241735.html This second piece is an interactive. Click on the different points to read a paragraph.

This is a very interesting place to be this time of the year.

Peace.

Monday, September 22, 2008

News and errands

Been running errands today, not much going on (thank goodness!).

Read the New York Times this morning, and came across an article and slide show:
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/22/world/middleeast/22dubai.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1&partner=rssyahoo&emc=rss

http://www.nytimes.com/slideshow/2008/09/22/world/20080922DUBAI_index.html

Interesting stuff to read/see/think about.

An article in the Khaleej Times this morning, called Dubai a 'salad.'
http://www.khaleejtimes.com/DisplayArticle.asp?xfile=data/theuae/2008/September/theuae_September507.xml&section=theuae&col

Folks are not blending together (ie melting pot) but co-existing for a common purpose (at least where we live). The school my munchkins attend celebrate various 'holidays' during the school year: Christmas, Diwali, Ramadan, UAE Day, Spring (sorta Easter), Halloween/Fall (not scary stuff-just costumes and fun), Eid (both the end of Ramadan and after Hajj). Everybody kinda celebrates/observes everything. Obviously, the holidays from your home country are going to be 'closer to the heart', but I've even seen classrooms decorated for Chinese New Year. The 'religion' stays at home or in the mosque/temple/church. Tolerance is taught and shown by example. Yes, I do know of organizations or 'coffee groups' or whatever based on people's home countries. Do I have a close association with people from my home country, of course. But, I have buddies from more countries than I can think of at the moment. Truly, how awesome is that?

Peace.

Side note: Link to pics from Galveston, Texas that are probably not in the regular 'press' for those of you interested:
http://www.tamug.edu/ikecampusimages.htm

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Some happy mindlessness!!!!!

First.....
Forecast high for today: 98F
Current temp outside: 102F

Second....happy mindlessness!!!!!

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/21/movies/21barn.html I was reading through the New York Times today, and I came across this story on the Muppets (my family are huge fans!). At first, I was a little concerned about what Disney might do to these cultural icons. They released some new video via www.youtube.com so I thought I'd have a look.

The first is pretty good.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDA9NbPAK8o

But the second had us in stitches:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpcUxwpOQ_A&feature=related

I can see how these videos went 'viral.' An excellent laugh after a yuck weekend. Gotta keep it real. But, I still don't know how I feel about a Disney/Muppet combo. I know Disney has owned 'em for years but....as long as the Muppets maintain their 'weirdness.'

Enjoy.

Peace.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

The Rental

We went and rented a 4 door Jeep Wrangler Unlimited Sahara. It's pretty cool. It doesn't feel as spry as the old junkie jeep I had, but it's kinda nice feeling like I'm in a Hummer. We've rented it for a month and had Omani auto insurance added. That way, we can really test drive one before we buy! When we do buy, thanks to 'baby step 3' for those of you who know what that is, we'll be paying cash. Mad about spending the money, but VERY grateful we have the money. But, hopefully, we can bring it back to the home country. Otherwise, Jeeps are huge here and we can resell it - eventually?

Here's a review and pics of pretty much what we've rented and are thinking about buying. We prefer the hard top to the soft top still at this point. As the husband put it, "A jeep is still the only way I can give my family a full roll cage." Also, even in town, my vehicle sees a lot of off road time - this place is not the home country! I offroad to get my munchkins to and from school.
http://www.edmunds.com/insideline/do/Drives/FullTests/articleId=116688

Everyone is still ok. I'm still a bit achey in the neck and head (but that's always been an issue for me), so basically no worries.

Peace.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Go buy a jeep wrangler








On our way to Oman, we were rear ended (we were almost at a dead stop approaching a clogged round about) by an 18-wheeled truck hauling a huge load of re-bar. We all walked away, and the husband managed to drive the jeep home. Even all the snorkel gear etc in the back survived. My dive camera, in a very hefty pelican case, looks like it survived. We can't get the camera case out because it's wedged in under what's left of the rear door. (It's now morning - camera case is out and obviously made it - but check out the Pelican case!) The accident happened, essentially, on highway out in the middle of the desert.

The husband was driving. I was very conservatively dressed (had my fave hiking head covering - 'shawla'). A local gentleman in very nice white native dress stopped and helped. Many many 'shokrans' and prayers for him and his family. The only way I could thank him was I gave him the whole box of pumpkin bread and pecan coffee cake I had just baked with a very tearful "Ramadan Kareem." The gentleman who stopped to help: He helped the husband speak with the police who only speak Arabic while the kids and I sat in his brand new air conditioned Cadillac SUV. The truck driver was found at fault, and I want another jeep. Some good buddies and former fellow co-workers of mine drove out to pick us up. The whole thing took hours - I have no idea how long. I was kinda in shock.
We folded down the back seat trying to get out the last duffel bag and the pelican case. The munchkins have special car booster seats with high head rests that are like racing seats - they kinda wrap around. I know those seats protected the heads of the kids.
When the accident happened, I think I blanked out for a few seconds - the world went black. None of us recall the actuality that we were pushed a full truck length and then some. Before I looked in the back seat, I knew the kids were ok because they were screaming - not moaning or silent.
Munchkin #1 has a bit of ache across the chest from the seat belt, my face/nose hurts from where my hardcover map book I was reading hit me, Munchkin #2 has a sore leg and waist from the seat belt (not sure about the leg - how she got that ache). The husband feels fine. He took his anger out this morning on the spare tire 'ripping' it off the back of the jeep to extract the pelican case and duffel bag.
We're probably going to get me a rental vehicle for the next month while we figure out what we're doing next. Neither of us thinks we should attempt to repair the old jeep. We both want something a touch bigger, but we still want a jeep (and I want a new Pelican case - the old one is too hard to get open - I have to stand on it). And, we still want to make the trip to Oman for snorkeling.
Peace.
Side note: my jeep left a 'jeep shaped' imprint on the front of the huge truck that hit us. You could especially see where the truck had hit the spare tire.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

We've heard from everyone!

Greetings! All our friends and family in flood prone areas affected by recent nasty weather have been in contact with us! But, alas, the last friend (she was in my wedding and I in hers), the email address I received for her mom didn't work. Sigh...it bounced back. But thanks so very much for getting into contact with us! And, I had no idea you all (and you know who you are) read this blog. How cool.

Ok. Time to clean house, hopefully make a run to the dive shop, and get ready to head for Oman. We're hoping for no sharks this trip - they make Munchkin #1 very nervous. He needs to enjoy the thrill of swimming with fish rather than watching from the rocks. Both munchkins are totally excited about getting to test their new wetsuits.

Peace.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Good, bad, sad, interesting

Greetings all!

Some good, some bad, some sad, and some interesting.....

Some good: Many thanks to my Dad for checking up on my house! You are so appreciated! And thanks to my Mom for letting him go! My house is in good shape.

Some bad: I still have not had contact with an old friend who lives in a area that is VERY flood prone and was hit by a recent LARGE storm.

Some sad: I have spent a great deal of time on Galveston Island in Texas in the States. I just read it could be months before the island is reopened to residents after the recent hurricane.

Some interesting: I recently had the opportunity to drive all the way out onto the Palm Jumeirah island in Dubai. I also was able to drive a portion of the outer 'crescent'. Being on the crescent was an interesting experience. You look over the side of the road and you KNOW you are basically out in open ocean. Frankly, it felt very odd to see those large deep waves and such dark blue water so very close to the road. In order to get out to the crescent, you travel through a long deep tunnel - I don't know if it goes under the water? The new Atlantis hotel that is about to open out there is really something. It is a very fancy/froofroo looking kind of place. It initially appears that the hotel beach will actually be on the back side of the crescent - good thing - wouldn't want to try to see a beach, kids and open ocean mix.

The first link is for the water park at the Atlantis hotel:
http://www.atlantisthepalm.com/content/pdf/ATP_Aquaventure_DolphinBay_Map.pdf

This next link is for the Atlantis hotel itself:
http://www.atlantisthepalm.com/theresort.aspx
I should also add that the hotel is surrounded by a desert looking kinda island. The pretty turquoise blue water and all the greenery are not real - they don't exist. The photo of the hotel on the main page is not the real deal.

My little family is hoping to head for Oman this weekend to do some snorkeling. Hopefully, more pics etc on that later.

Peace.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Trying to forget about life for a while

This last weekend we spent the whole weekend either shopping for stuff to go snorkeling or going snorkeling. Unfortunately, we couldn't get Munchkin #1 off the float and into the water - he loves our giant turtle float.

Unfortunately, I tend to be a 'worrier.' And this has been a worrisome week for me - along with many others as you can well imagine.

We're going to do some weekend travel here at the end of this week. I'll keep everyone posted about our whereabouts.

Have a safe day!

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Yup, politics again and earthquakes and storms

First, my thoughts are with the Texas coast in the United States. Have a read:
http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=5767263

I did some 'work' today, so I've been out all day. I've only had a few minutes to read the news, but again, my opinions/hopes for an Obama presidency are still intact.

Read.......

http://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/Story?id=5766173&page=1
http://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/Story?id=5689165&page=1
http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/Vote2008/Story?id=5769091&page=1

Enough said. If you don't catch my meaning with these stories, then well, I'm out of words for today on politics.

Now, another subject. This is not one of my regular news sources, but it's been a difficult day for many:
http://www.albawaba.com/en/countries/Iran/235463

http://www.gulfnews.com/nation/Environment/10243956.html The husband's building in our area was evacuated. Since they were already out of power (from some other cause), he came home early.

Peace and stay safe.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Talking some serious politics

This snap has nothing to do with what I want to write about today. But, please note that the block is TOTALLY covered with little snails (what I'd call 'augers'). Super cool stuff (ok, I find it interesting).
Now, on to what's really on my mind (yeah, I know; Some of you may think this is frightening stuff).
From an international perspective, I'm going to tell you why I hope the United States elects Barack Obama the next president.
First, let me offer some quotes from some of this morning's news:
America's Highway Trust Fund is almost out of funds.
"In turn, the department called for an immediate infusion of $8 billion in tax revenues into the fund. That's precisely what some Democrats in Congress have been trying to do -- and a move that the administration, just six weeks ago, opposed.
"It's too bad that it has taken an emergency to force the administration to pull its head out of the sand and appreciate how serious this problem is," said Sen. Patty Murray, D-Wash., who leads the committee in charge of appropriating transportation funds, in a Friday statement."
Obviously, Americans desperately need some real change in Washington. Having driven all over America, and having driven (or been driven) in many other countries, I can tell you that Americas highways are some of the best in the world if not the best. But, they must be maintained. Without good roads, what then?
A few bits on Senator John McCain:
""On the core issues, the economy and the war, he has been joined to Bush at the hip," said Democratic pollster Mark Mellman. "On the other hand, Bush is a lead weight dragging him down. He has to rely on rhetoric to separate (himself) but he can't separate himself on policies important to the American people.""
....and further.....
""Voting with George Bush 90 percent of the time isn't being a maverick, it's being the president's sidekick," said Obama campaign spokesman Bill Burton. "The idea that John McCain represents change in Washington is as laughable as his claim that he'll take on the special interests when some of the biggest corporate lobbyists in America are running his campaign."
Railing against Washington's political establishment is an old tradition in presidential campaigns, but McCain overlooks the fact that he is an elder in the club. He is Arizona's senior senator, having served 22 years after four years in the House."
Since I don't live in the States, I can tell you that folks around the world (certainly in the areas I'm familiar with) are VERY unhappy with the current U.S. presidential administration. It feels as if America is totally not listening or noticing what is going on in the world beyond its borders. That should be really scary to Americans living within the U.S. borders. We all live in a very global world. One can not hide out and ignore the world. Otherwise, the rest of the world is going to pass you by.
Ok. Enough of this morning news.
Barack Obama has lived outside the United States. He lived and went to school in a Muslim country. With international relations at the top of the list (along with the economy) of things the U.S. needs to work on, a president who has lived internationally is priceless. My kids are growing up at the moment surrounded by kids from countries other than our home country. Kids who grow up as members of the 'international community' I believe are better able to understand and fix international problems.
I have family who write better than I do about this kind of stuff (lots more facts/figures etc). But, I can tell you my guts are rarely wrong. Before the current U.S. president was elected, I told folks I knew, "If he is elected, I know he's going to get America into a war in the Middle East." Well, my guts say that America needs Obama.
Without going through a laundry list of issues, I will tell you that Mr. Obama and Mr. McCain are very different in how they stand on the issues. If you don't have first hand knowledge of this, if you don't believe me, I encourage you to read and discover for yourself. Ads can be very misleading. Read from the hard core news sources. It's worth the time.
Ok. Enough politics for today.
Peace.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Weather and politics


Forecast high for today: 102F

Temp I noted earlier today: 108F

Current temp: 99F


Munchkin #1 went to the office this afternoon with Dad/the husband. Munchkin #1 has homework and is sporting his laptop. The kid was quite happy not to have to sit at the gym for 2 hours for Munchkin #2's sport of choice. Mum on the other


Now, on to some politics:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/sep/07/pakistan.zardari.election?gusrc=rss&feed=networkfront Again, another political situation I am following. While watching CNN this morning, I heard the newly elected Pakistan president exclaim that he will 'hand back' certain powers that were claimed by the previous president in Pakistan. Will that happen? I don't know. What this all means for Pakistan? I don't know.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Snorkeling on the weekend

Marhaba! Greetings from the beach! I spent some time snorkeling today without the family (husband and munchkins went to go pick up a friend of Munchkin #1 - Mum took advantage of the alone time). We had a little yellow fish with a black spot hanging out around our favorite little stretch of beach. The husband noticed babies the last time we went out. I went back today to get some video of the little ones.

I'm digging around on http://www.fishbase.org/ at the moment to see if I can identify these little guys. They are fast, and as you can see by the video, they are rather shy. I think, according to fishbase.org that this little guy might be a Dory Snapper, Family Lutjanidae, Lutijanus fulviflamma. If my identification is correct, then that means a reef species is living on our fave little beach.

Thinking of fishbase.org, I uploaded a photo of a mated pair of Arabian Butterfly Fish. I'll know in a few more weeks if they accepted the submission.

Munchkin #1 is very happy to have one of his buddies from school over at the moment. This particular friend lived for a few years in the same city I grew up in! Small world. His family is originally from Bolivia.

Hope the little yellow fish is visible in the video. The were some waves today, and I was having difficulty staying still enough to shoot video.

Friday, September 5, 2008

Two crabs and some history

Marhaba!

Brief note today (Going on a 'date' tonight with the husband, and I need to clean up after snorkeling/swimming).

We caught two massive hermit crabs that are now happily roaming the bottom of the tank.

And, last night I finally watched Lawerence of Arabia starring Peter O'Toole. What a movie.
Found a PBS show about him. Here's the link:
http://www.pbs.org/lawrenceofarabia/index.html
The info on the website makes for excellent interesting reading. It's amazing to me all this happened only 3 to 4 generations ago. Absolutely amazing.

Have a great weekend.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Politics Can be Frightening

Sorry folks, too much to do today to post pics/video. But, I am deeply concerned about something I just read.

http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/Conventions/Story?id=5718030&page=2

Now, you've probably figured out that I am watching the American political scene at the moment. Well, I've been reading about the Republican's political convention. And, now, let me quote a piece from the link above:

"Sending the crowd into wild applause, GOPAC chairman Michael Steele, a Republican Party fundraiser, touted aggressive oil exploration in the United States.
"So, do you want to put your country first?" he asked. "Then let's reduce our dependency on foreign sources of oil and promote oil and gas production at home.
"In other words, drill baby drill! And drill now!" Steele said.
After that the crowd frequently errupted into chants of "Drill baby drill!" "


I understand the need for oil, probably a touch better than the average person. I also probably understand a bit about the oil industry, again probably a touch better than the average person. But, the focus can not be drilling. It must be a tremendous push to find alternatives to oil. I don't think the folks in the oil industry need to be worried about losing their jobs anytime soon; there is still a tremendous need for oil. But the best way to break independence on oil is too quit using so much of it and find other alternatives. Again, the oil industry won't be losing jobs anytime soon - we use oil for everything including the plastic bottles that hold organic/Earth friendly shampoo. Drilling further in Alaska in the United States would be a tiny little drop in a very big bucket.

Answers to oil dependency for the world will not come easily. And they certainly will not be found with only "Drill baby drill".

Has the Republican party mentioned Global Warming at all? If they have, please email me a link to the story. I'm very interested.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Life is going along

Not much news from this part of the world. It's kind of interesting; the Republican political convention in the States is not getting the media attention here that the Democratic one received. BBC and CNN this morning were all sports etc.... I have not noticed anything yet on Al Jazeera. So, we'll see. It is an interesting thing to keep tabs on.

http://www.gulfnews.com/news/gulf/oman/10237715.htmln Found this article yesterday. This should not affect the area of Oman we visit for swimming.

I have been able to meet now with the munchkins' teachers. All is well. We've already been having friends over, and we have more playdates set for this weekend.

Thinking of friends, we have become acquainted with another family from the same home country (our daughters are buddies from school). We're hoping to attend an Iftar (breaking the fast at Ramadan) meal at one of the big hotels together. We found a place that does the huge tent along with a buffet of Lebanese food. I'll post snaps if we go.

Today will include a trip into the big city. I need to ship some documents to the home country.

I posted a video today of Daisy Rat. She's healing up nicely from all the little mites, poor thing. We found a very nice vet from South Africa. Our new vet here told us that the mites will only bother Daisy, not people - Thank goodness! When the vet first met Daisy she replied, "You are a manky little thing aren't you!" We've changed her bedding to clean old rags (dish towels and socks). I think she picked up the mites from a bag of pine bedding (it was still sealed in the package it came in from Europe). She's good company. She loves to sit in my lap for a nice rub down and scratch.

Well, it's off to the kitchen for a bit.