
(This snap is from my wanderings in a souq. It has nothing to do with the rest of this post.)
Hang onto your socks folks; this post may be a bit controversial. This is merely my not so humble opinion. This is not news. Ok. Read on.
I've been following the news coming out of Haiti (as so much of the world has been). I read this piece this morning:
http://abcnews.go.com/International/wirestory?id=9709773&page=1 I mean, wow. Those poor kids, and those poor Baptists - wow.
Now, for my maybe controversial comments.
I have done a bit of 'aid work' with the desperately poor in the aftermath of a natural disaster. I'd had some training for what I was called to do, but I don't know if ANYTHING can prepare you for the aftermath of a really bad disaster. I remember how in this age of technology, families were trying to find each other by scribbles on bits of paper and cardboard posted with names and phone numbers on any flat surface that they could attach a sign to. It felt to many like the 'aftermath' would go on forever in all its horror. But, it does get better. Sometimes it takes a long time, but it does eventually get better. And, aid workers/volunteers must remember that. If you don't remember that, you will lose your focus.
When you think of 'aid', what comes to mind? Digging wells for clean drinking water? Passing out food? Building a house? Volunteering time and talent to teach? Are these good things to do? Yes, of course they are. But, not all things fit all situations. Do the recipients of the aid even want it? Hmmmm....here things get fuzzy....
My father-in-law told me a story once from the time he was with the UN. He was speaking to a village 'elder' in a rather remote place. He told the village 'elder' that a new well was being dug for the village. The elder was surprised, "Why? Our water from the river is fine. What we need is a place to play football. We need a place where we can watch the football game. This is what they have in other places. This is what we need." Yes, this village probably could have benefited from a new well with cleaner drinking water, but to them, it was not what they 'needed.'
I have traveled in a region where the children were so used to 'aid' being given to them, that they were surprised and frustrated when it was not given. This was a region that had become dependent on 'aid.' Should we still try to help? Yes, of course, but aid givers must very cautious and listen to what the aid recipients are saying.
Having traveled to numerous countries, it boggles my mind that anyone could believe that crossing a border with a child without documentation is a good idea. Was this situation an attempt at rendering aid? I don't know. (My personal guess - it was. I think professional 'bad guys' would have dealt with things differently. But what do I know? Nothing.) But, it blows my mind that someone would think about let alone attempt to try it. I'm curious about what 'aid' giving experience this group of Baptists had before they went to Haiti? What training had they had before they left U.S. soil for Haiti? What international travel had any of them ever done?
So, the question stands. How do we aid? It's a tough question. Do I have a great answer? No, I do not. But, I can say that aid should not be undertaken lightly. Should we do our best to help those in need? Absolutely. It's the 'how' we do our best that gets fuzzy.
Peace.