How do we cope with loss?

Our pet rat, Daisy, has what is probably severe cancer. The tumors are now so large that she can no longer use one of her paws. It's horrid. We have so loved this little creature. She's been part of our family for three years. Her favorite napping place is along the back of a person's neck. She has always loved curling up under my long hair.

Moving to a foreign country three years ago was an exciting and painful process. We were excited about the move and the adventure, but our cats went to family and friends and our dog went to live with my parents. Transporting animals so far and to a place where we were going from a large home to a smallish apartment was just not realistic. Even though they were all resettled in reasonable situations (we still spend summer holidays with our dog), it was still a painful process.

Daisy was a huge comfort to all of us when we arrived, but especially to me and the children. She came to us from another ex-pat family who's pet rat had given birth. Moving between countries is an adventure, but it is one that leaves you feeling very unsettled at times. Things like family, friends and pets keep you grounded in reality.

We have an appointment with the vet on Wednesday. Please be thinking about our family and our lovely little pet who is suffering so very much.

Peace (I sure could use some).